After that I say "OK, better you tie for me, I don't want any more." And then after that, we can't do anything. My husband look after the 3 kids at home, because I don't know about any helper. The nurse or doctor said, "your husband he come look at you," after the cesarean, but I say,"no, he can't because we got three children at home.
If he come nobody look after the three kids!" I say, "never mind that". She say, "you want to sign for the caesarian?" I say, "sign". And then after that everything is OK. I get half an anaesthetic, so I can see how the delivery of the baby is OK. After that in the morning time my husband come in and visit me: "how is your inducement?" I say, "hey, the baby already there!"
Because we don't know everything that happens here, we come here 10 years [ago], we had no carer, and everything we just don't know! I met two others of them who look after their children with disability. I can tell you about my friend. I met her because her daughter also goes to the same centre that my son goes to. So it is a very hard time.
But we are also very
lucky that we are here and then my son he also improved a lot. And he
has got a job now, and then he join the choir in the church. It was also
very good. If he didn't come here I think it would also be not as good.
In Malaysia I think he would be... I can't imagine.
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